Perkara tak boleh terima diri

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Caranya mudah kalau mahu berjaya. Tak kira lah dlm apa juga..termasuk dlm memulakan persahabatan. Jangan membuatkan orang lain menanam sedikit pun rasa prejudis terhadap you, dalam apa jua perkara pun. Sebab tu impresi pertama sangat penting. You screw the first impression, safely say you are done and out.

Beginilah. Kalau bagi contoh situasi lebih senang nak faham. I kenal sama seorang kenalan baru, maka bermula lah sesi suai kenal kami serba ringkas, berkongsi perihal latar belakang sikit sebanyak.I ni simple..I x pernah nk pilih dgn siapa I nak kawan dgn siapa x xnk kawan or what so ever..itu sangat childish. Tp dalam sesuatu perkenalan yg baru..apa yg penting sekali ialah komunikasi. No point kalau U bercakap sangat perlahan dan lemah gemalai sampai I x paham langsung apa yg U cakapkan. And lebih penting..setiap kali hendak memulakan acara suai kenal dgn u, I rasa tension sbb kena berdiri and dekatkan telinga kat mulut U untuk dengar apa yg u cakap kan..

Eh, common la.. I dont aspect you to jerit2 or what...just enough kalau i boleh clearly dengar n paham whatever U say dalam jarak not more than 3-4 kaki from U.

I know..u memang perempuan melayu terakhir dan sangat lemah lembut. My point here..u still can continue your lemah lembut, but please make it clear enuf.. can't you???Bila I say "sorry, i cant here what u r saying?" or " sorry,can u speak louder?", I mengharapkan you kuatkan ur sound so that I can understand your word. Malangnya, you still bercakap seperti mengunyah mknn or as if you sedang baca jampi terkumat kamit. Aiyoo..xdengar lew awak.

Disebabkan banyak kali I sound you kepada perkara yg sama, at last I jadi fed up.You pon lama2 mesti jadi bosan dgn I..or mesti dlm hati U ckp " ape la pekak badak sangat minah ni.." haha..Then, I will try my best to not attached with u. Sorry for that..its for our own best. I don't want to be looked like "org pekak" when every conversation with you will go by " haa??"

So sorry ye kenalan baru.. I just cannot into you.

Wonder, mcm mana nak ckp dgn this girl kalau kuar jalan2 kat shopping mall ek? X boleh ajak awak g shopping la camtu..kalau nk hang out, kena kat tmpt sunyi2..tmn bunga or tmn tasik titiwangsa. Eiiyeeewww!! Pelik la dating ngn girlfren kat tmn bunga..ha ha ha then..ckp bisik2 pulak tuh..

OMG.. I am really not that type. Big Sorry..

Nota Little Lizzy : Communication skill juga sangat penting in your career peeps. That most important key point to success in your professional life. Think about it and cheers!! ;D